Close call.

So last week we had a close call as far as almost having #2. I was late a week and I was anxious to know why because without sharing too much detail, it didn't make sense for me to be that late. And we weren't trying. I have been irregular since I started again after having Pria. But not THAT irregular. Usually just 2 days off.
Anyway.
I went out and bought a tester after 6 days and on day 7 my worries went away... Haha.
If that had happened though we would have had our next kid in the month of October. Same as Pria only two weeks earlier. I had mixed feelings about that idea. If it was a second girl doing birthdays would be easier but still wouldn't be as special for them in possibly sharing birthday parties... And if it was a boy that would be very difficult. A girl/boy birthday party would be hard to do. Especially once they are older and want more boys or more girls or like if Pria wanted a princess party for example. Then we would have to be doing separate parties and that would get expensive. And hard for when families want to do just a family party. They are only going to want to combine parties so they don't have to do two in a row especially when some don't live close.
So,
"phew!"
It would have been a happy thing for sure, but as far as birthdays go, not so awesome in my opinion.  I like to plan and decorate as far as parties go. As you may know if you went to Pria's birthday last year... I went all out haha.
I am hoping for a spring baby this time. October was a great month, but I can't do that month twice. And I really don't want to have a baby November-February.