No pity please.

So as we have been ready for having a baby, I still didn't want to share with family or friends that we were. Because... even though some people just get pregnant right off the bat, that doesn't mean everybody can have perfect timing. I don't want to tell people and then each month people are guessing. If you are eating a certain thing or gain maybe a little weight or get sick (they think your nauseous because you are prego) or whatever. On top of guessing, the longer you don't get pregnant, the more people have pity and are like, "Aw it will work for you someday..."

Yuck. I hate that.

What is the hurry anyway? If it is this year or next year or in 3 years, everything will be fine when it happens.